FNF Newsletter 24th December

Hello Visitor,

Seasonal Wishes

At FNF we hear many sad stories of children who won't be able to see their dads or, in some cases mums and often grandparents too. These stories increase in number and intensity at this time of year that we so strongly associate with family time and children. Inevitably, when things go wrong we think of what could have been, the joy, the laughter and fun.

If you are seeing your children in the coming days, we hope you have a lovely time. If we helped you to achieve this outcome then please feel free to share your story with us (at admin@fnf.org.uk).  If your children won't be seeing you in the coming days or weeks then please stay positive - your children need you to be healthy and be there for them for when they do see you or hear from you, so please try not to let your upset get in the way of putting them first. They need to know that both parents love them and that they, or at least one of them, warmly supports them having both their parents in their lives. If your children are not with you, perhaps write to them or if you can't then write to them and keep the letter - one day they may well be happy to know that they were in your thoughts all the time. Also, if you are alone, do contact friend and family and resolve to get involved in helping others next year by volunteering support at our branches, Helpline or national office.


Whatever your situation, we wish you warm season’s greetings and a Happy New Year! 


Last year we shared a video created by Andy Remic. For those who are new or did not see it or anyone wanting to see it again, please click here:
 
p.s.
Since our last Newsletter FNF have moved offices, taken part in a number consultations, our Central London Branch held a workshop on domestic violence, we've published a report on abuse of Non-Molestation Orders, have been in national media a number of times and are working on other projects. Over the coming few weeks we will update you on these with suggestions on how you can get involved and how we can make a difference in 2019.

With best wishes

Jerry Karlin
Chair and Managing Trustee